Challenge the false narrative that you’re “lucky to be here” instead of called to be here.
To challenge this narrative, we must first dissect the language of luck. Here are a few mindset shifts to make:

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It’s Not a Fluke — It’s FAVOR

To claim that you made it into a room or secured a seat at the table because of a fluke contradicts your faith. You’ve worked hard and paid your dues to become the confident, capable individual you are today. Sitting alongside your peers is not accidental—it’s a testament to your preparation and a reflection of God’s favor on your life.

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It’s Not Coincidence — It’s CALLING

You were meant to be in this space. The room you occupy would not be the same without your presence. When you label your position as coincidence, you diminish the divine hand at work in your life. You were intentionally chosen and divinely positioned. That seat was prepared for you.
That nameplate? It’s yours.

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It’s Not Serendipity — It’s SOVEREIGNTY

“If you don’t know me by now…” as the songwriter wrote—I’ll admit, I’m biased on this topic. I don’t believe in chance. Through genealogy research, I’ve found myself connected to family—and to other people’s families—without knowing it beforehand. When I’ve shared those moments, someone once called it serendipity. I’m sure she noticed my facial expression change.

I believe God works in everything—from the mundane to the magnificent. Nothing is random. So when I look at my seat at the table, I don’t see luck or coincidence. I see sovereignty.

Ready to silence the inner critic and fully own your space?
Let this be the season you stop shrinking and start standing in your God-given authority. Begin your healing journey today—grab your journal, start therapy, or work with a coach who sees the called woman in you.

Contact Nekeshia c/o Meraki Counseling today at 832-779-3039 today.